God Is Good All the Time And All the Time God Is Good
God Is Good All the Time And All the Time God Is Good
"Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing."
1 Thessalonians 5:11
A Tribute to My Beloved Late Husband Ed Dewey
In honor of our upcoming 26th wedding anniversary, September 4, I share this tribute to my late husband Ed Dewey.
Our story was planned, directed and written by God. He brought Ed into my life in 1998, and we were married on September 4, 1999 at First Baptist Church in Ashland, Oregon. We happily lived out the wonderful life God gave us together for almost 24 years.
On May 6, 2023, everything changed. My healthy, active, strong husband had an unexpected, sudden heart attack while we were on vacation in Genoa, Nevada and passed into the arms of Jesus as he was being transported in an ambulance to the Carson-Tahoe Hospital in Carson City, Nevada. The Lord granted me a few moments with him to hold his hand and tell him, "I love you, Sweetheart" shortly before he entered heaven.
At the moment Ed had his heart attack, the Lord mobilized a small army to help me that day to deal with the tragedy. A wonderful couple from Reno observed the events and offered to pray, then they drove me to the hospital, where a nurse said the words, everyone dreads to hear, "You need to prepare yourself."
And I learned that Ed had passed away. My new friend sat with me in that hospital room with my husband's body. She encouraged me continually, then helped me find a funeral home in Carson City. The couple also made arrangements for my lodging for the night and stayed with me over 24 hours until my family arrived. My family and friends were very encouraging, and my sister and brother-in-law drove for 2 days from Redmond, Oregon to help me drive home.
The Resort where I was staying went above and beyond to provide lodging and meals for my family and me. That day, the Lord provided so many people to help me that I had no doubt about His goodness and His presence. And even in the very dark days that followed when I couldn't feel or sense His presence, I knew He was there and working on my behalf.
Ed was a man of God who truly exhibited the fruit of the Holy Spirit. He was kind, considerate, generous, loving, patient, reliable and hardworking. He worked various jobs throughout his career, and he built a comfortable place in the country for us to spend our retirement years. We had a wonderful retirement, living in the country and traveling all over the western US.
Ed loved the Lord, and he was trusting in Jesus alone for his salvation. And because of the grace of God, he is in the presence of Jesus and having the best time ever! Revelation 21:3-4, "God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there will be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away."
Because of the death and resurrection of Christ, that is the new reality that Ed is experiencing.
My husband, Earl, and I were living on a small farm on Sterling Creek, up out of Jacksonville. We knew this couple, Willie and Robin, from my husband’s work. They were a little younger than we were. They had four kids, and we had six. We had known them for a couple of years, and we knew they were having difficulties in their marriage. He had left her several times but this time he left her and took their three boys with him, and said the boys were his and the girl (Monica, six years old) was hers.
Willie never heard from him again. She tried to find the boys but was never successful. After about a year, she was able to save up enough money to get a divorce and she had met a man that she was planning to marry. Willie came out to our place often and we babysat for her occasionally. One day, she asked us if anything were to happen to her, would we be willing to take Monica, and raise her as our own. I told her, “of course” but also told her she would have to talk to my husband, as he was the “bread winner”, which she did.
About two months later, on December 27, everybody was gone, and I was home alone, and the phone rang. The man on the other end of the line said he was a policeman and said if I wasn’t sitting down that I should be seated. There had been an argument and Willie had gotten into her car and took off, leaving Monica behind. Her boyfriend took Monica to a neighbor’s house and then tried to figure out where she might have gone.
She had headed toward Ruch, from the Applegate, and missed the turn and ended up in a field. A car that has been following her, stopped to help. He saw that she was okay, so he went home to get his dad and return. At the time, Willie’s job was driving a flag car for the transport of mobile homes from Portland. Since she was driving alone, she carried a small pistol in her glove compartment. When the two men returned to the scene of the accident, she had committed suicide!
After my initial shock, I asked the policeman where Monica was. He put me in touch with “Children’s services”, and they came and took me to her, and I was made her guardian. We had her for about two weeks, when the caseworker told us we were to tell Monica exactly what had happened. I thought, “Wow, what a job!”
Monica’s grandfather came up to take care of Willie’s stuff and to have her cremated. A week later, he and his wife returned with the intention of taking Monica home with them. They came out and spent all day Friday and Saturday. We explained to them, how Willie had expressed her desire for us to take and raise Monica as our own. They returned to their home without taking her with them.
I had been raised as a Catholic and Earl was a Christian. We believed the Lord revealed to us what the grandparents were going to say to us when they returned, and it was just as the Lord said it would be. They returned on Monday, and they signed the papers for us to adopt Monica.
Earl and I had talked about it, and we wanted Monica, but only if God wanted us to have her. We decided we would abide by the judge’s decision at the time of the hearing. Everything appeared to be against the adoption! Her grandparents were against it, and Willie had two sisters apt to be chosen, and there was nothing in writing, only a verbal agreement.
Another strike against us; we had six kids and were living in an unfinished house with no indoor plumbing, and Earl had just been declared 100% disabled. (He was a welder.) Also, welfare was required to advertise in three different places in Oregon to try to find the biological father, which was unsuccessful!
But God had appointed us to raise Monica according to His plan, and by May the adoption was final.
After all these things... I started attending church where Monica and the rest of the children were going! By Kareen Powell
(Edited by Sunny Couch, “Many of us know Monica and her love for Jesus!” God has been glorified!)
During one lecture, a professor suddenly picked up a glass of water and held it up. He stood there quietly, just holding it, as the students began to glance at each other, waiting for an explanation. Ten minutes passed, and he still didn’t lower his arm.
Finally, he asked: “Tell me, how much do you think this glass weighs?”
The students started guessing: “Maybe a couple of ounces!”
“Four ounces!”
“Five!”
The professor smiled. “Honestly, I don’t know either. To find out, we’d have to weigh it. But that’s not the real question. What happens if I hold this glass for a few minutes?”
“Nothing,” the students replied.
“Right. Now, what if I hold it for an hour?”
“Your arm will start to hurt,” one answered.
“Correct. And what if I try to hold it all day?”
“Your arm would go numb, you’d be in serious pain, maybe even need medical help,” another said as the class laughed.
The professor nodded calmly. “Exactly. But tell me—did the weight of the glass ever change?”
“No,” came the reply.
“So why the pain in the arm? Why the tension in the muscles?”
The room fell silent.
Then he asked: “What should I do to get rid of the pain?”
“Put the glass down,” someone said.
“Exactly!” the professor exclaimed. “Life’s problems work the same way. If you carry them in your head for a few minutes, it’s no big deal. Think about them for too long, and they start to hurt. Dwell on them all day, and they paralyze you—you won’t be able to do anything else.”
He paused, then finished with this: “That’s why it’s so important to put your problems down at the end of each day. Don’t go to bed carrying the weight of them. Rest, recharge, and you’ll wake up ready to face tomorrow with strength and clarity.”
"Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations."
Hope in the Lord...He will get you through.
The pain some people bear
No one would believe
The hurt that's sometimes there
Makes it hard to see
That in the darkest hour
There is still a way
Listen to these simple words I say
Jesus knows your hurt
Jesus feels your pain
Jesus knows just how you feel
’Cause He's felt just the same
Jesus knows your need
Better than you do
Just hold on to Jesus
He's holding on to you
Sometimes you feel alone
Does He really care?
Has He left you on your own?
And does He hear your prayer?
Well, He has never left you
Or forsaken you one day
Listen to these simple words I say
Jesus knows your hurt
Jesus feels your pain
Jesus knows just how you feel
’Cause He's felt just the same
Jesus knows your need
Better than you do
Just hold on to Jesus
He's holding on to you
Just hold on to Jesus
He's holding on to you
Grief is an emotion common to the human experience, and we witness the process of grief throughout the biblical narrative. Multiple Bible characters experienced deep loss and sadness, including Job, Naomi, Hannah, and David. Even Jesus mourned (John 11:35; Matthew 23:37-39).
After Lazarus died, Jesus went to the village of Bethany, where Lazarus was buried. When Jesus saw Martha and the other mourners weeping, He also wept. He was moved by their grief and also by the fact of Lazarus’s death.
The astounding thing is that, even though Jesus knew He was going to raise Lazarus from the dead, He chose to partake of the grief of the situation. Jesus truly is a high priest who can “sympathize with our weaknesses” (Hebrews 4:15).
One step in overcoming grief is having the right perspective on it. First, we recognize that grief is a natural response to pain and loss. There is nothing wrong with grieving. Second, we know that times of grief serve a purpose.
Ecclesiastes 7:2 says, “It is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting, for this is the end of all mankind, and the living will lay it to heart.”
This verse implies that grief can be good because it can refresh our perspective on life. Third, we remember that feelings of grief are temporary. “Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning” (Psalm 30:5). There is an end to mourning. Grief has its purpose, but it also has its limit.
Through it all, God is faithful.
There are many Scriptures that remind us of God’s faithfulness in times of mourning. He is with us even in the valley of the shadow of death (Psalm 23:4).
When David sorrowed, he prayed this in Psalm 56:8: “You have kept count of my tossings; put my tears in your bottle. Are they not in your book?” (ESV). The touching image of God catching our tears is full of meaning. He sees our grief and does not disdain it.
Like Jesus entered into the grief of the mourners in Bethany, God enters into our grief. At the same time, He reassures us that all is not lost. Psalm 46:10 reminds us to “be still” and rest in the knowledge that He is God. He is our refuge
(Psalm 91:1-2). He works all things together for the good of those He has called (Romans 8:28).
An important part of overcoming grief is expressing it to God. The Psalms contain numerous examples of pouring out one’s heart to God. Interestingly, the psalmist never ends where he began.
He may start a psalm with expressions of grief, but, almost invariably, he will end it with praise (Psalm 13; Psalm 23:4; Psalm 30:11-12; Psalm 56). God understands us (Psalm 139:2).
When we commune with Him, we are able to open our minds to the truth that He loves us, that He is faithful, that He is in control, and that He knows how He is going to work it out for our good.
Another important step in overcoming grief is to share it with others. The body of Christ is designed to ease the burdens of its individual members (Galatians 6:2), and fellow believers have the ability to “mourn with those who mourn” (Romans 12:15).
Often, the grieving tend to shun others, increasing feelings of isolation and misery. It is much healthier to seek counseling, and group settings can be invaluable. Groups offer listening ears and helpful encouragement, camaraderie, and guidance in working through the grief. When we share our stories with God and others, our grief is lessened.
Sadly, grief is part of the human experience. Loss is part of life, and grief is a natural response to loss. But we have the hope of Christ, and we know that He is strong enough to carry our burdens (Matthew 11:30). We can give our hurt to Him because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7).
We can find solace in the Holy Spirit, our Comforter and Paraclete (John 14:16). In grief, we cast our burdens on Him, rely on the community of the church, delve into the truth of the Word, and ultimately experience hope (Hebrews 6:19-20).
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